How do I get along with thi..

I eat regularly at the best and cheapest caf茅 in town. One of the waitressses/cooks is honestly like the most beautiful person in town - she is very attractive, with clear skin, thin, etc. Myself, I am a bit overweight + quite ugly + with a lot of acne scars + balding + quite poor + shy/boring. Not being hard on myself - it's true. I honestly know she would never go out with me in a million years. I think maybe even I am a bit weird/scarey for her and some of the other ladies who work there, because of my looks. The thing is I am actually a nice person! I feel a lot of compassion towards her but I can't express it. I don't even know what to say. I don't want to say how good-looking she is because that will probably make her uncomfortable. I feel sad because I care about her feelings a lot but she will never know it. What do you think I should do? Would it be better if I didn't go back?

Some people like to dowse. They get themselves a pendulum and discover that this vastly increases their intuition. They come to rely on it. Soon, instead of reading a map, they start holding their hand over a road diagram and then going wherever they feel the strongest tingle in their fingertips. Instinct is a good thing, and a powerful thing too. There is a reason though, why we are all blessed with intelligence. You are quite sure now about what you feel. Still, though, you need to know why you feel it.