What can i do to improve my..

serious answers please

i have a problem with my self steem.

i am not the most beatiful girl in the world, but i know for sure im not the ugliest one either =P , but i want to feel better about my self i want to drop 20 pounds. [ive already started excercising [SP?]

but i need help with fashion tips and stuff

im 5'3" , 140 [like i said i want to drop 20 pounds for prom which is in april] , i have hazel eyes [brown-greenish] , olive skin, kind of big boobies =S , dark dark brown hair.

so what colors would look better on me?

hair styles ?

any good healthy diet?

help?

thanx<3

Try self hypnosis. I got this cd I like that guides me through a meditation for self-esteem. I got it at Borders, but they have stuff like it at my library that I can even download.

As far as colors go, wear whatever you like to look at. Then try it on. If you still like it, go for it. I personally wear a lot of black because it's one of the few colors I like.

As a guy, I can also tell you that what a lot of us find attractive more than anything is a good attitude with a smile. Who really enjoys a grumpy or sad person? So, if you're having problems with your self-esteem and you're down on yourself about it all, try an inner dialog to remind yourself that everything is fine and then think of something funny about the situations you find yourself in. I find comedy in everything. I'll find it funny that I care what other people are thinking because, well, their thoughts are just opinions and their opinions aren't any more valid than mine. I think the Strokes say, "My feelings are more important than yours," as a joke.