Pale blonde hair, but I wan..

I have naturally blonde hair,but have for a long time highlighted and lightened it. Just for a change I decided to go a darker color and went to a dark brown auburn. Well I got tired of it after awhile and my roots were growing out so I used a color remover to strip it from my hair so I could go back to being blonde. Then because the remover left some orange in it I used a pale ash blonde color to neutralize those warm tones(because I look better in cool tones with my very fair & cool skin tone). Then I dyed it Feria 100 Pure Diamond which is a light blonde with NATURAL tones because its exactly the color I want. Well my hair darkened a LITTLE, but its still really pale, almost white. Can I not use natural tones over a basically white blonde to get color,is that why it didn't really work? I want to have a more natural, less pale, shade of blonde, how do I go from ultra pale blonde to more natural(but not warm shade) with AT HOME coloring? My hair still feels in good condition fyi.

first of all do not use wal mart dyes which contain metallic and compound dyes they are really bad on the hair and not a professional product and i am preety sure if you dye your hair as light as you have it if you go darker it will have a red hue to it go to salleys and get your color make sure it does not conatin compound dyes or metallic which is unpredictable and is not salon compatable . if i was you ii would definately go to a salon tell them every thing you have put on your hair and go from there