Why does it seem that a lot..

Messed up thing is that it also seems that black people, in general, tend to be more cordial to other races than our own? Does it stem from slavery when the slavemasters pitted the lighter skinned black against the darker skinned blacks? Or is it something else?

I don't know, do white women find the same situations? Is it a race thing or a gender thing because it seems that guys don't have this problem. Or, do they?

This is not a nice answer but it is the truth as I know it from my own exprnce with living in diff areas.

Black females bounce off each other easier because black men sleep around more thus the females are more wheary of what is happening with their guy and who he is sleeping with and who they should be jealous of, who they ought to be, or could be, or would be etc.

But in the end, guys get to sleep around because silly girls let them. So no fingers should be pointed at the men only.

It's a chick thing, not a race thing....Men are all Stupid, therfore woman are all CRAZY. and that's just it....

It's all a personality thing. If the person isn't open minded, of course they'll stick to what they think or hear. With females, it's stupid.